They want me to sell them my home for the $120k I bought it for. I plan on using the equity as the down payment on my new home home that's roughly around $600k. My mom & my sister are pissed. They keep trying to convince me to sell the home for under value so "they can finally have some stability in their life".Recently Blair sold her house and moved into a smaller home sort of setup with her sister. She asked me to move in with her and here is the part where I messed up. She didn't tell me that she moved houses so I agreed thinking I could just live in her big beach house. I went ahead and sold my nice suburban family home of two stories.AITA for selling my PS5 rather than sharing it with my step brothers? My (15, M) mum and dad met and briefly dated while they were both studying at uni. My mum gave birth to me after they had broken up and had to sue my dad for child support. I was raised by my mum and had virtually nothing to do with my dad throughout my childhood. My mum was an …An account is just a container. Yes, dad is legally allowed to access what's in the container, but the money still doesn't belong to him. If OP said, "please withdraw $3k and give it to sis," sure, dad could do that, since his name is on the account. If he deposited $3k, he could withdraw it later.To my family I'm now a selfish and ungrateful daughter who's not respecting my dad, and my brother isn't speaking to me. They also seem to think my husband "put me up to this". Luckily my mother is on my side, but I'm afraid maybe selling to Cheryl isn't right after all.It’s not enough to say, “I’m not contributing to these industrial practices, or I’m not contributing to climate change.” Ted Genoways wants to challenge your thinking about the peo...AITA for effectively making my sister homeless. I (35M) and siblings (32F, 27F) grew up well off, but to put it succinctly my mother once peed her pants laughing when my sister called us rich and my mother pointed out we (the children) were broke. We paid our own way through college, with our parents agreeing to pay back any credits with a B+ ...AITA For Wanting To Sell Our Family Home To A Stranger Even Though My Half Sister. admin May 18, 2024 AITA. : ob_end_flush (): Failed to send buffer of zlib output compression (0) in on line.AITAH for not giving my family a $1 for selling the family home. Years ago, my grandparents helped my mother get a house for stability. As we grew up, we moved out, leaving the house vacant due to my mother's husband's disinterest. In 2016, I asked for the house, but my mother refused, citing issues with my children's father.AITA for selling a family heirloom to pay for my destination wedding? Asshole. My fiancée (38F) and I (39M) are planning to get married this summer. We both want to have quite a lavish wedding at a winery in another state. The two of us agree that it's the most important occasion in our lives, so we should make it as memorable as possible.A Dad Wants To Sell One Daughter's Car To Pay For the Other Daughter's Tuition & Reddit Is Absolutely Losing It. by Rebecca Rakowitz. April 10, 2024 at 10:38am EDT. Adobe Stock. Family ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for not telling my bf that my dad/family is "rich"? No A-holes here. So, my bf "Callum" and I have been together for 8 months, and over this long weekend I figured it would be a good time for him to meet my dad. He has met my mom and stepdad a couple of times, but always at restaurants or my place.Apart-Tradition-2235. ADMIN MOD. AITA for selling my stethoscope instead of giving it back to the family? Not the A-hole. I'm (20sF) from an immigrant family in the US. There's a stereotype among members of my community that only a handful of jobs that are acceptable to have (i.e. doctor, lawyer, engineer).My own family goes out of our way NOT to inconvenience each other, so whenever someone has an "innocent mistake", we've had arguments over who GETS to pay for it. (And if my nephew had caused fire damage, we would have already had a collection pulled together without being asked.) So everyone needs to take a hard look, but not everyone is ...Macy’s sells a variety of products including home essentials, men’s clothing, women’s clothing, junior clothing, kids’ clothing and shoes. The store also sells watches, jewelry, ha...It is terrible money management. You only have a certain amount of land. Eventually, your extended family will run out of land to sell. It may seem like a lot of land to them. It may even still be a lot of land. But it is still a finite amount of land. It doesn't even matter if your family only had to sell a piece of land every 5 or 10 years.In high school, I dated one of my sister's friends. It was a small town. This was inevitable as it was either one of her friends, one of her enemies, or age inappropriate. It got real serious in the talking marriage and life plans way. We dreamed of taking over the family home to have our own family and my parents retiring to Florida.AITA for not wanting to sell my house and give money back to in-laws. Not the A-hole. My wife and I purchased a lovely home summer 2022 and did so the usual way with roughly 20% down and a 30-yr mortgage. Financially, we were surviving and making our monthly payments; everything was OK. My wife's non-American (Non US-based) parents, …AITA For Telling My In Laws That If They Want A Gr… AITA For Getting A Tattoo For My Sister; AITA For Leaving The Village While Pregnant; AITA For My Son For Causing A Scene In School; AITA For Not Agreeing To Share A Hotel Room In Veg…This fake as hell, but medical bills aren’t the only bills that have to be paid. If he’s in a coma and not working their income is likely affected (or would be if real) and the rent, car, insurance, utilities, phone, etc. still have to be paid. Seriously. I was expecting it to have been much longer….My aunt remained seated and my cousin asked me to calm down and drink some water but I grabbed my stuff and as I was getting ready, I told my sister she was getting 0 dollars for her dream wedding dress then I walked out. I heard louder commotion as I walked and my dad and cousin followed me outside trying to talk but I asked to be left alone.My wife 27F and I 27M have been making trips to Home Depot to renovate our backyard. It's become a little "date" for us and we enjoy the quality time. In March of 2022, my father in law (FIL) suddenly passed away from a heart attack. I am very close with my wife's family and supported her through the grieving process.They went to my work to demand the above apology, plus an apology for telling them to not go to my home again, and also for my neighbors calling 911 when they thought I could be in danger. ----- Throwaway account My brother "Jerry" (M21) and I (F26) were close for most of our lives. We're two of nine adult children in a very dysfunctional family.ADMIN MOD. AITA for CCing all family, friends, and coworkers after my husband divorced me via email? I (47F) woke up yesterday morning to an email from my husband of 21 years (50M) entitled " Working Things Out." Very deceptive title because instead of arranging a meeting or even a phone call, my husband goes on a four paragraph soapbox speech ...Maximum_Resist4134. AITA for selling my family 'heirloom' jewellery? Asshole. I (F33) inherited my nans earrings when she died 10 years. My sister (F35) was given the matching necklace. We have both loved them very dearly, nan wore them on her wedding day so I wore my earrings on mine, and my sister wore her necklace.He asked if my sister could stay with me to lighten the load on them. I said no, I am happy now and getting involved with y’all will just make me miserable. You guys didn’t do much for me when I was young so I don’t owe them anything. My dad tried to plead with me saying they could loose the house and end up homeless. I still refused and ...Glum-String3273. AITA for not letting my brother's family stay at my house for Christmas? Not the A-hole. I live in the same city as my parents, my brother does not. He is about a 6 hour drive away. He recently married a woman with 3 kids (6,9,11). I met the kids once at the wedding, they seem hyper but generally like normal kids at that age.It was finished at the top of this year. For the fourth of July I invited the family down to celebrate. A lot of my family hadn’t seen the home in person, so once they did the talk of how much I was making came into place. Our home is now a six-bedroom beauty with four and a half baths that sits on over sixty acres of land and a private lake.My partner's (both in mid 30s, we share a home) parents gave my partner the beloved family cabin. They had the opportunity to buy a smaller cabin nearby from a friend and as it is mostly just the mother using it, a smaller place made sense. They didn't want to get rid of the original, mostly due to sentimental value as the mother LOVES it.All of the this. OP you haven't compromised a bit. You are putting your bio family's needs and wishes above your wife and her family who —NEWSFLASH—are about to become your family too. It's clear to me that you're not ready to get married when you're prioritizing your biological family over your spouse.OP needs someway to pay for their wedding...00:00 Intro00:09 AITA for selling a family heirloom to pay for my destination wedding?02:29 Commentary06:08 Tea T...Business, Economics, and Finance. GameStop Moderna Pfizer Johnson & Johnson AstraZeneca Walgreens Best Buy Novavax SpaceX Tesla. CryptoThe total bill was over $240, and I paid. Usually, when I cover the tab for my friends or significant other, they generously tip since they're only responsible for the gratuity, not the cost of the meal itself. However, a few days ago, my cousins (21M) revealed that they had only left a $1 tip and they have tip only 1 dollars before.She said the house appraised for $400,000 but going to sell it to us for $350,000 and wants us to pay it off in 10 years. The monthly payment will be about $2,300 a month. My wife and her aunt came to these figures based largely on how long her aunt expects to be active and wants to use the money to travel and enjoy life.Some years I've spent $20k in repairs and upkeep. $5.5k seems like a good average across my like 6 years in my house. That would be $2,750 owed in on average. Congrats, you've either broken even or owe more. In my scenario someone would owe in another $851 and get nothing back in this "equity" building time.knittingdrama. AITA for taking back my gift and refusing to return it. Not the A-hole. This happened over christmas and I'm still getting heat over it. I love knitting and crochet. It's my thing. This year, with covid and all, money's been tight, so I decided to knit christmas gifts for everyone using yarn I already had.My mom used to tell my sisters and me don't start a fight if you can't finish it. Meaning don't start something if you can't take it. Your mom started the fight and you finished it, she just couldn't take what she started. Edit: my sisters and I were always provoking each other and complaining about the retaliation after it.If you agreed to a certain rental price, they have the right to ask for what they need in order to live there. You could have increased the rent, a certain percentage every year, depending on your state laws.When you sell a home quickly, you lose many of the special protections and lowered tax liabilities that the IRS grants you. This is especially true if you are selling an investment...My mother refused to help. During a visit, her husband demanded I not sell the house, fearing legal consequences. I told him to either pay the debt or I sell the home. I sold the house, received $30k after all fees were paid, and looked for me a new place. My family doubted the sale, and my sister was angry at not receiving a share. My mother ...I have to agree here. I don't think there's anything wrong with setting the boundaries in the home that you are comfortable with but I also don't think this friend is intentionally crossing boundaries. I am so happy when my friends are comfortable enough to treat my space like their home, minus the walking into my bedroom part lol.Just be calm and say, “You always break my things when borrowing them and don’t offer to repair or replace the items. I will no longer loan you my things.”. Repeat as necessary in a calm voice. They can get mad all they want, they’re still in the wrong. wwolffstarr.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I suggested to my wife that I skip spending Xmas with her family this year to stay home by myself.AITA for selling the family heirloom of a stranger, and dodging a request to share the profits? My mother 'S' retired a couple years ago, and has taken up flipping things on eBay or DePop as a hobby. She does not do this with the intent to hit it big, she just enjoys the hunt and running into cool pieces.Yeah this whole situation is really the fault of the system more than anything. OP was able to buy a house at the age of 28 in 1980. These days, unless you have significant financial help from parents, you simply cannot afford to buy a family home in your 20s/30s.AITA for selling my family home because my pregnant sister in law ate my dinner./r/AmItheAssholeThank you for watching our videos.If you like our videos, ple...Meaning I have a nun at my home every other week for 6 hours a day. They stay in the den and the house is big enough that I don't really hear it. My issue is that for the past 3 (almost 4) months, when the kids are here, I don't have a second to breath. They want to be near the baby at every waking minute that they can be. If I'm holding the ...My plans are to use my share of the inheritance to fix up the house. It’s an old house and it needs considerable amount of work to bring it up to code. My brothers had no intentions in helping me with the house. They continued being lazy, arrogant and entitled. I continued to pay all the utility bills and whatever else the house needed.Recently Blair sold her house and moved into a smaller home sort of setup with her sister. She asked me to move in with her and here is the part where I messed up. She didn't tell me that she moved houses so I agreed thinking I could just live in her big beach house. I went ahead and sold my nice suburban family home of two stories.Sheand my fiance freaked out after I told her that she needed to pay me for a new dress in 3 days or else I'll show the whole family the photo. She started crying and then left and my fiance blew up at me saying I can't be serious and that I overreacted because his mom just wanted to try the dress on, no harm done.So I’m at a bit of a crossroad today. I’m thinking of selling the car I bought for my mom. I love my mom a lot and I got her a new Lexus in 2021. I’m not rich, and honestly it’s not easy paying for it. I’m 27f and my mom is 60, and I have a sibling 37f who lives with me, but I don’t recognize because honestly I hate her.He didn't let me explain before he went off on me. She contradicts herself, she talks about her own peace and personal journey and then tries to switch the narrative to "I sold it to pay for the bills." "Pay the bills", the coma was 4 weeks she wasn't even overdue on her 1 set of bills when she sold that ring.They will absolutely take control and treat it as theirs. They believe, and have acted on the belief, that they are entitled first to anything our father has. I think I convinced my father to sell the land and the house and to just build something on the modest bit of land I have in the USA. It’s close enough to a city and is over 6 acres.Sounds like my Hispanic family making grandma put the guilt trip on you and spoiling your sister. I know we don't want to spill the tea, but u have 2 choices. 1. Continue to support your sister and be ready when they ask for more money. 2 pull out the receipts and put them on blast.Selling my childhood home so quickly after her death knowing I STILL lived there was insane. He didn’t even talk to me that much about it. You don’t treat someone you “love” like that. Now they think I’m going to play big sister…They will walk through the home with you and make you a fair offer for its market value, no Realtors necessary. The advantage of selling the family home to a real estate investor is that they have the time and capital to give the home the care and repairs it needs. They can wait for the right family to move in to make new memories.My husband and I (f48) had good jobs so we got the opportunity to save and buy a house when we got married. Then, as my husband loved to fish, we saved money again to buy a house in a lake near our city. We have two kids Theo (m29) and Lindsey (f26). We used to have family vacations in the lake house quite often as it wasn't that far.I come from a rich family. I just married a woman whose mother has crippling debts to pay. My wife's mother is great. Not only is she a handcrafter (which automatically makes her a saint, obviously), but she is also one of the good poors - you know, the type who silently takes abuse from everyone and sacrifices everything, even her own dignity, for the sake of her children.He's got a job, and his finances aren't your business much less your problem, unless you allow them to be. Guess your brother will pay or your parents will sell the house. Either way it's not your problem to solve. If he was actually ashamed, he'd have been paying his share or made a deal with you to pay you back.For the past five years I’ve been renting the house to a nice family with a young child (5M). They’ve been great tenants and there haven’t been any issues. A month ago I was approached by a realtor about selling my property. He had a buyer who was interested and was ready to offer $60,000 over market because of the location.